Paula Willems and Quim Gutiérrez posing at an event with a graphic of footprints and question marks.

Quim Gutiérrez and the indirect message to his wife Paula Willems about the relationship

Actor Quim Gutiérrez explained how he views infidelity in a relationship

Quim Gutiérrez, the renowned Spanish actor, became a father again six months ago. Little is known about his relationship with his wife, model Paula Willems, although everything seems to be going smoothly. For a while, there was speculation with various rumors due to the age difference.

However, it seems that Quim and Paula have found balance, and everything revolves around a relationship based on communication and respect. Perhaps something more. A couple of years ago, Quim Gutiérrez spoke about fidelity in relationships and gave some hints.

His words seemed to be an indirect message to his wife Paula Willems. Although he didn't mention her directly, his statements about infidelity made his point of view on relationships clear.

The actor had then played an unfaithful man who discovers that his pregnant wife knows about his betrayal. From this plot, Gutiérrez reflected on his own view of fidelity.

His opinion was blunt: "I'd rather not find out, no doubt." These words marked a clear stance on what he considers best in a relationship.

A smiling couple at their outdoor wedding.
Quim and Paula at the wedding | @_paulawillems, Instagram

"I'd rather not find out"

Gutiérrez explained that, in his personal life, he would prefer not to know about infidelity. According to him, if there is love and understanding in a relationship, sometimes it's better not to know details that could be painful.

"If you have a relationship that works, you can find out things or not," he said. For the actor, there are infidelities that, in some cases, have no more consequences than a simple slip, but the important thing is to prevent these situations from destroying a relationship.

However, he also added that if a relationship no longer works, it's better to make a decision before bigger problems arise. "I'd rather end a relationship before getting involved with someone else," he stated. These words, although related to his role in the movie, could be interpreted as a personal message.

A quieter private life

Quim Gutiérrez also spoke about his personal life and how, together with his wife Paula Willems, they decided to move to the countryside to gain privacy. The actor explained that, although they used to live in the city, they always had the idea of finding a quieter place. "We've gained in privacy and isolation," he commented. Living in the countryside has allowed them to enjoy a quieter life, away from the media and constant public attention.

Close-up of Quim Gutiérrez with a serious face
Quim didn't hold back anything | Instagram, @quimyo

For Gutiérrez, this decision has given them the opportunity to be more relaxed and enjoy their family. In fact, he mentioned that in their new home, he is not recognized by everyone.

"Not many people know me in my village," he said. This statement seems to reflect the actor's desire to protect his personal life and his relationship with Paula from public exposure.

Reflection on relationships and media exposure

Throughout the interview, the actor also reflected on how difficult it is to be a public figure. He spoke about how vulnerable one can feel being judged by public opinion, especially when social media makes it easy for people to express their judgments without knowing the details. "We are very vulnerable to someone with power conditioning what is said about us," he stated.

Despite the difficulties, Gutiérrez highlighted the importance of being transparent with oneself in relationships. For him, the key is honesty and knowing when it's time to end a relationship before it becomes a bigger problem.

A message for Paula?

Although Quim Gutiérrez didn't mention Paula Willems directly, his words about fidelity could be interpreted as an indirect message to her. The actor seems to want to convey that, for him, the most important thing in his relationship is trust and privacy. The move to the countryside and his reflections on fidelity suggest that, in his personal life, he deeply values tranquility and mutual respect in his relationship with his wife.